This is my 3rd article. Thanks for the response so far through mails, sms and phone calls..
'Do this' 'Dont do this' 'You must do this or you will suffer'...blah blah blah..This is what we hear from our childhood. Elders call it as 'Advice' whereas youngster like us refer it as 'irritation'.
The advices has been given to us from our childhood by our dad, mom, sister, brother, neighbours, relatives, friends, x, y, z...I am not saying 'all the advices are bullshit'..The one which is given to us from our parents and siblings always has to be listened and obeyed
because they give it to make us perfect and a respectable person in the society. In some cases, even the parent's advice fails. Lets say, a guy is willing to course in law, is being forced to join Engineering. The guy will most probably join because of his parents unwillingly. The guy will complete his engineering without any interest in doing this and finally suffers to get a job.If the guy might have chosen law as per his willing instead of Engineering, he would have studied it with more interest and would have succeeded with that profession. Again, it depends. He may or may not succeed (next second is uncertainty). Atleast, he would have studied the subject of his interest and felt happy about it.
The guy has to realise at this stage. His age will be in the range of 20-25 when he completes his degree(its an average, i m not speaking about 'out of range senior guys'). The next stage has to be decided by the guy. He should not be succumbed to the choice of his parents (or) friends."Whatever happens, life has to move on", so the profession which he chooses now has to be taken by him according to his strengths. No matter what his education background his, he can choose a profession of his own.
To be continued...